Need advice. . off topic

[shayshaylove3]

So today I went through my boyfriends ipod, going through the photos there were still pictures and videos of his most recent ex. I deleted everything considering maybe he forgot about the pics, he definitely doesn't need them anymore. . So I said something to him and he got a little irritated for me going through his stuff. And said he knew the pics and videos were on there. We been together for a year. What and how would u react? Am I wrong for being mad about it?

[hopkinsbaby2015]

I would reacted and done the same thing.

[3rdNdone]

So what he had pictures and videos of his ex. When he is ready to let go of all of his past he will. But deleting them without his prior knowledge makes you seem childish, jealous and insecure. He is with you right now and you are entitled to your feelings. But I think the discussion should be had about why he still has them and you should have let him decide whether or not he was ready to get rid of his memories.

[victoriamichelle1010]

I am not afraid to admit i am insecure so yes i did delete them without asking. I dont want him looking at the pictures thinking about what he had when i am here now. My bf was engaged so he obviously had strong feelings. I do get insecure thinking he could miss her and want her. Out of sight, out of mind.

[katie_1989]

I went through my bfs contacts and deleted girls numbers that he has no need to have anymore.. we've been together fir 5 yrs and i thought it was nit necessary to see his hookups phone numbers.. its been about a month and i dont think he has noticed yet..

[shayshaylove3]

He shouldn't have any type of past with him if he's going to have a future with me is what im saying 3rdone.he shouldn't be in another relationship if he can't let go of his past females exactly why it was deleted (:

[Paigelee5]

Okay 3rdndone she probably is a little insecure and jealous because she's pregnant! And that's HER boyfriend. I am so sorry but when you are in a committed relationship you are supposed to be for your spouse/fiance/bf/gf only! Your eyes should only be on that one person in your life leaving all the crap from the past IN THE PAST. I'm very sorry that you're upset and I hope you two work it out. Huge hugs!