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No Sex!
My girlfriend and I have been together for about three years now and it seems like we never have sex anymore. When we first started going out she couldn't keep her hands off of me and now i can barley get some occasional "hand love". We are both 20 and my friends are usually having sex at least 3 to 4 times a week i only get it maybe 1 a month!. What should I do, I love this girl and have plans to marry her one day but sex is a big deal for me.
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thanks for all of your responses. I talked to her and she said it is because of her birth control and other medications and we will be going to the doctors soon to try and change them. I will let you guys know how it goes, Thanks again.
Males your age are at the peak of sexual hormones while females often are not until they are sometimes well into their 20's or 30's. This difference also shows when males are so instantly aroused at your age while often females take much more time to become aroused and require more emotional stimulation to reach that point.
3 years is a long time to be together but the beginning of a relationship is never going to be the same as a 3 year relationship you get comfortable,busy and sometimes you forget why your even still together you should just talk to her and see if there is a reason that she doesn't want to have sex anymore and go from there
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and honest to god this is what is going on with us! The exact same thing. It's my fault. I love him so much and I wanna be with him forever. I just work all the time and I'm stressing out about money; not to mention we never get time together. I am on the pill and I have been for about 4 years now and it does affect the way that I feel about sex. I'm never in the mood and it ***** because I want to be....it's ruining our relationship and I dont know what to do. I just felt excited to tell you this because I thought that I was the only one who was dealing with this and it *****. The most I can tell you is to be supportive of her, incourage her to try out other birth controls and get out more. Take her out on dates or have days where you get alone time together because i don't get that and it's making the situation even harder.
hope the best for you
nicole