Not Making my wife Happy

[Tommi_tml]

I have been married 11 years and my wife has never mentioned it, but i know she is not satisfied after sex.  I am not posting this as a joke, i am very serious to the point that it has made me unhappy.  I have a smaller then normal penis, my penis fully erect is between 3 and 4 inches, i am also uncut so the foreskin adds extra length.  when i am not erect it is about 2 inches.  I was hoping someone can help me by letting me know if there is anyway for me to enlarge my penis 2 to 3 inches.  Is there any safe way, either medicinal,herbal or surgery.  This is not a joke it has made me miserable, I apprechiate any help in this ,matter

[Tommi_tml]

yes she does like foreplay, but she prefers finishing off with penetration.  Do you know where i can get some info on this surgery.  Searching online for this info can get you every dumb site imaginalble

[Cautious836]

(start by saying certainly no expert) There is a surgery I believe but probably expensive; ask your doctor.  Does your wife like foreplay, oral sex, toys, etc.  Can she be satisfied other ways?

[jml1986]

I agree with girliegrl1723, you do not need to have a larger penis to statisfy your wife. Technique is more important then the size. I would talk to your wife and see if she is willing to try other things in your sex life. Most women are willing to add things to their sex life to make it better.

[slow_healer]

Tommi, I agree with girliegrl. The size of the penis does NOT determine how pleasureable the sex is. Try using your fingers to stroke her inside for a while. Ask her to masturbate with you - there's a lot of things you can be doing to enhance her experience while she's pleasuring herself to climax. Be creative. For the record, at least in my relationship, I have only ever climaxed thru masturbation and my partner is always happy to assist the process in any way he can. I think it actually takes the pressure off of him to pleasure me thru his penis alone. Good luck.

[girliegrl1723]

you don't need to enlarge your penis to make sex more enjoyable. there are other ways of doing that. maybe just "spicing" it up a little would help. foreplay, toys, movies, etc. everyone likes different things. just try some new stuff (nothing too out there) here and there with your wife and see what her response is to it. you can also give her orgasams other ways then just through intercourse. im sure you know that. good luck.