Not sure if she is pregnant or not

[northeastrelief]

Well, I made a mistake, I had sex with a girl, condom broke and luckily i pulled out and finished on her chest. After that happened I gave her plan b. I watched her take the first one and the second one we chatted over the phone. Anyways after we did it, rumors went around and she started to act funny. Then two weeks 4 days after we had intercourse she sends me a text with a positive pregnancy test picture, and that two days earlier she said she started birth control. So that night I went online and found the same picture on google images and the coding matches. She texted me, and talked to me seldom and roughly 3 weeks after she told me, she texted me that she needed a ride to the hospital because she had heavy bleeding and horrible cramps, I told her you need to take an ambulance, i am not around. She quickly diverted the conversation and said never mind, it is just a side affect of the birth control. She has only contacted me once since than it has been a month almost from the last contact. Lastly It has been two months since we had intercourse.
Need help

[northeastrelief]

thanks, everyone, I go to a small institution, i see her, but she wont say a word to me, and hasn't shown anysigns yet

[Vixxe]

sounds like she is faking it.  I think  if she was really prego she would be contacting you more and more  but she not. stop talking to her and dont worry!

[doubledeedee]

I would stop talking to her for a while because she seems to be doing a lot of back talking. I would wait about 7 months and check her Facebook page to see if she uploaded anything then and if she took plan b  bleeding is normal. Good luck

[TTinKKerBBell]

There is no contraceptive 100% risk free.  Even the birth control pill has a 1% failure rate.   Best "guarantee":   sex Only in a Committed Relationship - then, if birth control fails, if a pregnancy results,  it's not such a big deal.   If it's "just" sex You're looking for, well, You can do that solo - O Risk!!

[thatquietgirl]

Plan B can cause a delayed or missed period as well as heavy bleeding or even it coming sooner than normal.  Why did she begin and continue to take birth control pills anyway if she knew she was pregnant based on a pregnancy test?

Something doesn't quite add up here.  Don't worry about it unless you have more definitive proof.

[specialmom]

Hi there and welcome.  The thing about pregnancy when you suspect someone is bluffing is that . . .   well, it can only go on for so long, right?  I'd not contact her and not worry about this and then check her facebook page in like 10 months.  

The Plan B can cause irregular periods/bleeding as well and maybe that was what she was experiencing and not just outright lying.  don't know.  

Good luck

[Londres70]

Did she take the Plan B within 72 hours of the incident?  And you have NO idea if she took the second one because you "chatted" on the phone with her while she was supposely taking it.....correct?

Sounds like she is trying to play games with you, HOWEVER, like I tell my stepsons and my son......don't have sex with someone if you can't see being in a long term relationship with them or marrying them because these situations happen very often.  Condoms are NOT 100% foolproof.  

I would cut all contact off with her and wouldn't worry about ANYTHING in regards to her UNLESS she contacts you for a paternity test.  

I think the girl is bluffing.