I think the guy is a user and he dosen't want no responiblity of his child. I think if men don't want a child don't have sex cause it's a chance of getting a girl pregant. Any guy ever told me to get abortion I would never ever talk to them in my life and when I have the baby I would make them support there child. That's a baby. doesn't he understand you would be killing a baby. some reason he wants his way out. You do the best for you and your baby. You can do it without him. I know you were saying you have other children. Im sure your a good mom. Get rid of him you don't need a guy to tell you to get a abortion. That must hurt your feelings. please make the right choice keep the baby and tell him to go.
Do you look like Glenn Close?
who are you askin that to?
I was asking the original poster. Our posts were posted at the same time.
I told him that i was going to have the abortion, but i then changed my mind. Then he started freaking out. I told him that i have had an abortion before. He tells me that i am playing with his mind. But i dont really care about his feelings, i dont even know him that well.
we had casual conversations before, and he told me of how he wanted a normal family and no kids out of wedlock and things of that nature. like i said he didnt lead me on to believing that he would be with me. I knew what i was getting into. I told him that i want to have this kid so i would never be lonely. he begged so much for me not to have this kid, he didnt try to force me, i just really didnt care about what he said. i told him he didnt have to be involved and for him not to tell anyone. i also told him im used to men not being there. my first kid i cheated on my boyfriend and got pregnant by someone else, and my second kid the guy had a girlfriend that i knew about and i got pregnant by him too, so this isnt new to me. its new to him because he doesnt have any kids and has never gotten anyone pregnant. he shouldnt have came over my house drunk lol.
this is a joke. not a great one either. nobody can be this....well i hope there are no rabbits around this acorn!! maybe its vato's girlfriend.
no actually its not a joke, i am just trying to make light of this situation because i am really confused. I just hate that i am in this situation again. i really dont know what to do. please dont judge me.
I think what you should do just have this child and get rid of. I know it's easy said than done but the guy sounds like a loser. Please don't have the abortion you will regret this for the rest of your life. Im sure your smart.
Jesus Christ!!!! Have you ever seeing a psychiatrist? Do not get offended by this. It's just that, in case you are telling the truth, this is not a normal behavior. Why would you want to get yourself into that type of situation?
." i told him i would have the abortion, i then changed my mind and now hes freaking out. i always wanted a son. i joked with him and said if he would marry me i would have the abortion, he didnt think that was funny. he was talking about committing suicide and i told him if he did that i would be at his funeral to get his DNA so i could get my money. "
does this sound like a sane person to you???? its only part of the crazyness you have said. i cant imagine any man saying he would commit suicide over this, but hey maybe you two were made for each other. i think rather than a public forum you need a mental health hosp. normal people just dont act this way.