I have a friend I've known for nearly 25 years- in all of those years we have hung out, laughed and had the same temperament. She's laid back and not a drama seeking woman. However in the last year, I really have been the only one to reach out/initiate getting together. One thing that has always bugged me was that she tries to change whatever plan I make, into another plan, or doing something she wants instead after... like my plan was just not enough (when I've always agreed with her for years in doing certain things and did what she wanted/liked). But I am unsure how to go about our friendship. Besides that one little glitch we do have fun and laugh and I have not contacted her now in 4 months b/c I was the only one to do it all last year; it has made me feel low. She posts on FB of her new friends and doing this/that, not inviting me though, and simply saying these last couple months, 'we should get together!' and I reply 'We should..' Feeling though she will not contact me... I feel like I'm a friend who is WAY in the back burner and it sure doesn't feel great. We have been good friends for so many y ears.. what would you do? Just continue to wait until she 'might' initiate contact, or kind of let this go in your mind? I don't feel like initiating again so probably will not.. any insight welcome, Ty.