My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years, live together and will be having a baby together soon. I feel I truly love my girlfriend, but I am having a hard time trusting her. To start off my girlfriend and I are from two different backgrounds, which is great in some ways b/c we work well together, but her family for lack of a better word are kinda low-lifes,but I feel she isn't like that.The reason i mention the whole different background thing is b/c we dont see eye to eye on our values at times;, she has done a lot more partying/drugs, slept around more and has just done things I would consider bad in her past.This whole mistrust thing was sparked by a decrease in sex in our relationship. I currently am still very sexually attracted to her and really enjoy having sex with her (when we do), but she seems like she could take it or leave it. When our relationship 1st started the sex was good and I have discussed this with her, which she replied she was just trying to get me to like her, so having sex with me a lot was part of that (1st concern). We have discussed the sex problems too many times to count and her answer is always the same; nothing to do with me, she would be like that with any guy, not cheating.... The kicker on this is she has told me stories of her past sex life that really don't jive with her not wanting sex with me. She has had prob twice as many partners as I and has done a few things I don't even want to say. Well in addition to this she also has a lot of guy friends, which I have no problem with, but I have caught these guys flirting with her and trying to get her to cheat a few times( 2nd concern). She says that just b/c they are saying this stuff, her response to them is always that it is never going to happen, but never really tells them to knock it off. Personally if girls were talking like that to me, I would ask them to stop out of respect for her and if they wont then obviously that is the only reason they are being ur friend. Then recently I did a bad thing and signed into her Facebook... I know this is terrible of me to do, but this has been eating me for a long time and we are thinking of buying a house to make room for the little one, but I just needed to be sure I am doing the right thing. Well I found in there a message between her girlfriend and her describing a dream she had about this guy she used to go to school with and how after she has those dreams and thinks about him, she gets butterflys in her stomach. She basically sums this guy up by saying he was exactly like me, but more manly, which is exactly what she wants. The reason the manly thing came up is b/c I was raised in a house of just girls for many years.. It's not to say that I'm not manly, im just not a tough guy type and I help out with cooking/cleaning. Well I admitted to her I logged into her account and told her what I found and it was turned around on me for being a snooper ( i know, i am), but snooping or not, what she wrote to her friend must have had some truth to it. I just don't know if I can continue in this relationship no matter how much I love her, b/c i dont trust her or her friends and Im thinking Im not what she really wants and the sex thing has more to do with me than she is leading on. I need advice please! Ami being decived? Ps. she is a really good liar too, which doesnt fare well for me.