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[ashley911]

Ok I just posted a post about should I feel guilty right... Now my bf text me saying He needs to be alone to succeed his goals and I'm like wtf I'm in college and I didn't break up with you. Anyway I'm tired of it and I've had enough I want to be single and meet new ppl but how do I get over him?

[ashley911]

Thanks ....the hard part is being even more lonely and dreaming about him ...

[specialmom]

Break ups always hurt.  Even if we initiate it, it still hurts because we are ending something with someone we've cared about.  

But you are in the perfect place to get over it.  College is FUN!  (Oh, I had a great time in college).  It is the easiest place in the world to stay busy and meet all kinds of people.  If you don't live on campus, consider moving there to a dorm or student housing.  Throw yourself into what the school has to offer------------- clubs you can join, study groups, parties, etc.  Keep as busy as possible.

I like journals too to help work through emotions.  Writing out can be healing.
And exercise is key.  It not only makes us look better but does great things for our mood as well.  

Sorry about the break up and I do with you luck.

[ashley911]

Smile thanks

[cheshchesh819]

You will go through a mixture of emotions,upset hurt anger etc...but once you have over come that you will be surprised just how well you will learn to cope and live without him,lose all contact with him and start to rebuild and enjoy the life you have in front of you,good luck and be happy after all we only get one shot at life so dont waste anymore time on him.

[ashley911]

Yea I know and I've done that and even though I'm in a different now just for a year and I still couldn't do it

[thehitman357]

You just need to have time to heal.  This is really the only way if you are serious. However, if you run back to him and break up and run back to him and break up, you will not heal.  You will only hurt yourself.