dont know what to do advice please

[cristine2093]

Well I've been with my boyfriend since March everything was fine until July he started acting a little weird. I notice he started watching videos of this celebrity then downloading them on the computer and his cellphone then when the show came on the TV he would ignore me or just tells me to "shut up" on her part. Then he has so many pictures of her on his phone even wallpaper n screen saver, didn't say anything but it got worse he started buying shirts that had her face on them and bracelets with her name on it more posters etc. I started wounderin I asked him bout it he got offensive and started telling me crap, then I got soon annoyed by it cuz he wouldn't stop with it then he said that I was being immature about the whole thing and if I was still gonna be telling to get over being obsessed with her he was gonna break up with me. I honestly think he's the one being immature about it. What do you think I should do and don't think were teenagers were both in out mid 20s

[cristine2093]

Thank you I really appreciated, I have tried talking to him about it and he says im in love with that, celebrity bcuz I keep telling himto drop n forget her. I try to explain it to him how the ppl around him see it and he gets mad and says for me to behave already.

And its no one that famous believe me its some girl from jersey shore I just think those females are really trashy but thats just my opinion.

[lonelyperson]

He sounds obsessed.  Sit down with him and have a serious talk.

[Ashelen]

Yep, gotta be honest, this sounds a bit creepy and DEFINITELY obsessive. What celebrity is he focused on? I'm wondering because if it's someone like Oprah...this is a fairly common hero-worship obsession. But if it's someone else....well, stalkers start somewhere, and I'd be worried.

You're young, your boyfriend is a creep, so I'd say cut your losses and run now. Sorry to be so blunt, but I really feel like this is NOT going to fix itself. You could try to get him into counseling, and heaven knows I think he could use it, but chances are he won't go so...I'd say look out for yourself and move on now.

Sorry, I know it can't be an easy situation, but you absolutely deserve someone who wants to see YOUR face everywhere he goes, not some other woman.

[Makaslu]

He is obsess clearly , what even worse is that he ignores u dis worries m I neva tot ur partner wud ignore u 4 sum tng dis stupid n throw tentrumz! He rlly have a problem blv m..

[RainLover71]

He seems obsessed alright.He should be obsessed about you not some celebrity.You need to be the priority in his life because your real,His obsession is fantasy.