confused..and dont know what to do?

[hime]

pls...give me some advice ladies out there...im 24 yr old
and i have bf but his working abroad..our relationship is about 1yr and 3 months
we don't fight..we have no problem in out relationship
but the only thing that makes me confuse is...
when i ask him "how much you love me?" "bcoz me 100% i love you"...and he said
"to be honest i love you but not 100% as what you said"
what should i do??? is that mean that he's not serious in our relationship?
i am afraid of losing him...its better to die than to lose him..

[treazzure007]

"its better to die than to lose him"- oh please!  you are a grown woman.  you need to get hip to the world of dating.  appreciate the man's sincerity and do what you will with that info he shared with you- except dying

maybe just maybe it's b/c it's long distance?

[hime]

thank you so much i really appreciate your advice...you right babypooh its really hurt me more..i didn't expect that his telling me those thing...

[babypooh]

I think it's good that he was honest with you. It doesn't mean that he's not in love. I realize how painful it is to hear that from him, but you should continue your relationship as you always have. Appreciate his honestly and hope that in time, his love for you reaches that 100% mark as yours for him has. Good luck!

[iam1butterfly]

It seems a little strange to place Love in percentages. So, by 100%, I presume that you're saying that you love him wholeheartedly and that you're "in love" with him. The fact that he's admitting that his feelings are not 100% would indicate that he has yet to reach that mark. Not everyone falls in love at the same time and in the same measure or "percentage." Notice that he's not saying that he doesn't love you or doesn't feel serious or committed to the relationship... maybe he's just saying that his feelings aren't as intense as yours and he's not comfortable declaring that 100% certainty.