have you ever noticed...

[bigshot82]

that in 21st century there is a solution for every problem ... if you are sick, depressed, unemployed, bad credit, etc... you can seek professional help for almost everything... except for not getting girls! there is no solution for not being funny or witty or flirty. Doesn't feel right.


PS: my self esteem is ok; I just happen to realistically see the problem. Please spare me the self-esteem boosting comments

[el_em_en_oh]

In all seriousness dude, match & eharmony are just 2 of possibly thousands of sites out there to meet up with people/women/men. Not sure exactly what you're into, but in this era of self-serve/instant gratification, the internet seems as good a place as any to pick up chicks.

I'm old fashioned myself, so I stick to trolling the subway station, the laundromat and the local Alcoholics Anonymous groups, but if you're a young whipper-snapper, as I imagine you are, the internet is your doorway.

Good luck to you.

LMNO

[el_em_en_oh]

I've heard rumors of this thing called "the internets". Apparently it's loaded with different places (I think they're called "the web sights") that you can go to meet like minded people of the opposite sex.

Match ******* is one that I've heard about, but don't quote me on that.

Good luck to you!

LMNO

[brice1967]

Be yourself man.  At the very least the girls will know what they are getting.  Forcing anything *****.  Relax man, take your time.  Be the genuine article you are and you'll get yours.

[specialmom]

I'm not going to try to boost your self esteem. Only you can do that and it is a lot of hard work.  Much of how we perceive ourselves starts way before we start dating.  I'm talking about way back to the preschool years and our early home life.  Through looking at your life as a whole and not just dating-----------  improvement in self concept can come.  It involves getting rid of the negative voice in our head that we play over and over.  It isn't the girl we just met at a bar but a very old tape.  You need a new tape.  

While there is no pill to solve your problems, there is therapy to help you feel better about who you are.  I'd seek a professional to guide you through this.  good luck