If you are still interested in this guy ( and it sounds like you are) I would suggest telling him that you want to become friends first. Take the relationship back a couple of notches and focus on getting to know each other better.
Sorry...I meant to say I haven't really put myself out there...
I agree that 'sex' is only what he wants and I feel lucky that I have really put myself completely there. I plan to move on and find a decent man who deserve my true love! Thanks everyone's comments which are enlightening!
Thanks again!
According to your other post you and him just met. It's a little too soon to be telling him what he can and cannot do. Like specialmom says no calling for interventions so soon in the game. From what I can gather, this guy is only interested in one thing and that's sex. He doesn't sound like he cares, he sounds inpatient and like he's getting aggravated and to me, those are both bad signs. His response about not getting into a relationship until after sex is another sign that he wants just sex. I say, cut your loses and move on to a man who can tolerate a woman taking her time.
I get a sense that this guy is trouble from what you've written and agree with specialmom as well..too much is going on too soon in the relationship and it sounds like this is what it is destined for.
Jim
I think that casual dating means that you can dislike someone smoking but can't call them for an intervention if they start again. If it is a deal breaker for you, then do not date him. I imagine this was a problem for him. Trying to change someone early on in a relationship usually backfires.
I think you don't know what is happening nor does anyone. I don't know how close you got but it sounds like he may have an issue or two. I'd sit tight and see if he calls and in the mean time, keep your eyes open for another guy.
This is just my opinion. I wish you the best of luck.
All he wanted from you was sex. Since u didn't give it up he's mad. He's just trying to use u. If he really cared he would respect u and your decision to wait. I think you should forget about him and find someone who will respect you. Good Luck!
Just add another thing: he said he defines exlusive relationship as after having sex.