need advice

[confused_soul]

i am a 19 year old female whose been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now..im jus confused i dont l know what to do any more.i trust him to the fullest but i think sometimes i feel like he dont care like he use to and he lie to me so that he wont hear my mouth but he do any way..i know he is always around his phone but he dont answer when i call or text so it make me keep doing it and when he decide to talk he say i dont need to do it as much and keep pissing myself off..he says when he see im trying to contact him he will reach me as soon as he can..do i have something to be worried about.he dont talk to me about our relationship he goes to others and that makes me mad what do i have to do to get him to open up to me...
signed
CONFUSED_SOUL

[teko]

Is this your first serious relationship. I ask that because you are so young and say you have been with him for two years. Stop texting, IM ing and anything else to him during the day. It will not make your trust grow, and if someone was doing that to me, I would be sooooo annoyed that I would shut my phone off! Your situation is what it is and if in your gut, you feel something is off, than it probably is, but your not helping anything. Take one day at a time and keep your eyes open. Doing what you are doing will just push him out faster. Sounds like the type to not argue or listen either so if he is up to something or does not get into you anymore, he probably will not talk to you about it. Good luck

[Costanze]

I wouldn't keep texting him or calling him when he doesn't answer.  Call or text once until he responds.  Other wise, he may not respect you or might even think you are stalking him.  If you called or IM'd him once, how much time would you have to wait for his response?  I want to challenge you to think about your statement "it makes me keep doing it".  He cannot make you do anything.  You are choosing to keep texting him.  If you really do trust him, as you say you do, you won't have to keep checking up on him.  On the other hand, you mentioned he lies.  I'm wondering how you can trust someone who lies to you.

I'm a little confused about what this sentence means: "...he lie to me so that he wont hear my mouth but he do any way".  What does that mean?