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at times i am angry at my boyfriend why is that?
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Hello and welcome.  Well, it would be helpful if you gave more detail.  What is it you get angry about and when??  
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got no idea what is it i get angry about but i think it happens merely after the weekend because i do not get to see him much than.
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It seems you have issues with him having some space. This is not a way to maintain a healthy relationship. Sit down and speak to him and try to resolve these issues. If you don't, your anger will slowly drive him away.
973741 tn?1342342773
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Hi there sweetie.  Well, it sounds to me like you are resenting him because deep down you feel like he isn't trying to see you more.  I'm sorry about that.  I think the best thing to do is to sit down with him the next time you are together and tell him how you feel.  Not in a way that says he's doing something wrong but rather in a way that just says that you are missing him and would like to see him more.  And at that point, he can either make more effort or not and then you can decide if this relationship is worth pursuing further.

Sometimes too, anger can be a symptom of anxiety.  Or rather an expression of it.  Could you suffer some anxiety?  has this anger been a problem previously in your ilfe??  
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i think i am suffering from anxiety maybe that is why,and i do want to talk to him but how do i tell him that i just get angry with no reason, and yes would like to spend much more time with him but he does need to go see his family back home.another thing is his previous ex is that side to things did not end smoothly between them and i got caught in the middle as after a while i got threats from her.
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