very confused about girls lifestyle......pls help!!!!!!!!!

[maharaja]

am a 19 yr old boy and i am really confused about an issue....that is....... i feel very upset when i see girls go so easy about boys..i mean to say that a girl has an affair with someone and then she breaks up and then she again has a boyfriend as if she  is characterless...and i dont like these type of girls and try to stay away ...and because of this i hardly have any talking to a girl because almost every girl had some relationship in the past....because of my this thinking my social life is almost over...i am feeling very lonely and sad,depressed.....i dont know if  my thinking is right or wrong....pls guide me.....i am really worried....i need ur help....!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[slow_healer]

So stay away from these types of girls, and don't settle for any less respect than you deserve. There's a trade-off to this approach. If you lower your standards, it'll be much easier to meet *any* girl and take the chance that she might disrespect you and hurt your feelings. If you keep you standards high (for many people, demanding the respect they're worthy of is a hard standard to maintain), you're going to filter out *many* girls and meet worthy girls less often. It depends on what you want - quantity or quality?

Lots of girls feel the same way about meeting cheating adulterous guys too. Try not to be one of those guys, so when you do meet an awesome girl, she won't be scared by your history either. Good luck!

[Cootos]

Well just because girls date after a breakup immediately doen't mean they are over you or characterless....it's a way of hiding thier emotions and feelings, they date so soon in hopes of getting over the other guy sooner....I was one of them and really it's not right to rebound because it usually hurts someone including yourself in the end but sometimes that's just what girls do...although I have never had an affair on any of my boyfriends....that is just wrong but guys do it too....it's just a lack of responsibility and immaturity....affairs are selfish and can really wreck a persons feelings and esteem but when your young you want to experiment and your not really into looking for the right guy and settling down at the time your more into just having fun while your young :)