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what do you think does this guy loves me ?

i am in love with this guy and we never had a straight conversation yet , but he says hi to me and looks in my eyes for hours. but I'm not sure if he like me because he ignores me most times and we go to different churches with different beliefs I'm a baptist he's a pentecostal .  i always see him holding this  pentecostal girls hand and to me it looks like they love each other . Do you think I'm wasting my time loving this guy ?
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yes i will thanks
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I dont know for sure but i think its possible to fall in love like you describe. The problem is that it seems he has a girl already but the biggest problem is he doesnot love you. Its such a fine feeling to love someone but might be best to let this one go for now.
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As the others have said, you need to learn the meaning of the word "love" before you throw it around carelessly. What you have is an infatuation with this boy, and since he is with someone else then he is not available to you. Don't be one of those morally questionable girls who chases after a guy who is already taken because everyone hates a homewrecker.
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Agree with the above posters.

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ok thank you
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13167 tn?1327194124
You can't be "in love" with someone you've never had a conversation with yet.  

You're in love with being in love.  You've created a persona that you're in love with,  and this guy is it.
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He has a GF, and you claim to be in love with someone who ignores you (AND has a GF).  I think you're confused about what love is, this isn't it.  You cannot love someone who is in a relationship with someone else, and who has only looked at you.

I'd suggest figuring out why you've come to these conclusions, as they're not healthy.
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