I would like to first greet the community, as this is my first post :)
I am in my 20s, and preparing to settle down with someone I love. I am concerned about the possibility of being a carrier for STDs, and plan to consult my family doctor on this matter. Until I get the chance to do so, however, I would also like to hear the opinions of this community.
I have been completely monogamous for 4 years. I have, however, had two other sexual partners before the age of 20, one of whom is a high-risk individual (specifically, a male in his 40s living a 'swinger' livestyle), and the other very low-risk (virgin to sex of all forms - vaginal, anal, oral). I am most concerned, obviously, about the single encounter with the high-risk individual.
Prior to the encounter, I have requested for him to produce recent test results for HIV, and he did produce a very recent report that states his HIV status as negative. However, no results for other STDs were available.
The encounter itself consisted of oral-genital contacts (mutual oral), what felt like brief oral-anal (him on me), genital-genital (only external contact), and genital-anal. All contacts were without protection. Ejaculation occured externally (my hip/leg/waist area).
Again, I had but a single encounter with this high-risk individual.
I have had numerous sessions of sexual activities with the previously mentioned low-risk partner. I am not worried about these (not in terms of physical health, at least).
Aside from these two partners, I had been 'groped' once by a middle-aged man. The hand with which he had touched me had been in contact with his own genital immediately prior to coming into contact with mine. The 'groping' was brief, and no other contacts occured (other than my hand grabbing his arm).
I feel very depressed that I could not remain 'pure' for the one I truly love, but that is not the focus of my question. The main point of interest is how likely it is for me to carry an STD, or other diseases that would linger from these encounters (e.g. skin disease?). I cannot seem to exorcise a feeling of dirtiness until I can have a somewhat definite answer, and am having trouble becoming comfortable enough to continue making love with my current (and last) partner. So any answers and opinions will certainly be very, very much appreciated.
P.S. The high-risk partner with whom I have had an encountered informed me that he has 'had only 2 or 3' before me - i.e. the encounter with me happened to have occured early in his swinging lifestyle.
molluscum also will go away in time also.