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Should I be worried/paranoid?
Hi, 6 weeks ago I started having PROTECTED sex with my current girlfriend.
Before having our first sexual intercourse, we talked about getting tested and she said that she already tested negative for STIs including HIV and HPV. So, I was ok till she told me that her last test was 3 weeks only after her last sexual intercourse with her last partner, and that she had 3 partners within 6 months, between her last 2 tests (she gets tested every 6 months).
all of her previous encounters were PROTECTED (except for oral) with guys who get tested regularly (at most once each 2 years).
I'm getting paranoid because I've read that the tests are conclusive after 3 months from the last encounter.
8 months back she had a tumor removed but she never received a chemotherapy. she was prescribed some hormones the same the body creates during pregnancy (that's what her doctor said), but all of that ended 8 months ago.
We used to kiss deeply, I fingered her both ways and sucked her nipples many times.
We used to have PROTECTED vaginal sex.
She once gave me PROTECTED oral. and once put my penis in her mouth for 3 seconds.
And we had a PROTECTED brief (a minute or 2) anal sex only once.
I convinced her to get tested again next month. But, I'm still paranoid. was I at risk? all the odds are popping in my mind. I remember seeing a small (0.5 cm) outside her vagina after sex. I hate to be scared of her.
Before having our first sexual intercourse, we talked about getting tested and she said that she already tested negative for STIs including HIV and HPV. So, I was ok till she told me that her last test was 3 weeks only after her last sexual intercourse with her last partner, and that she had 3 partners within 6 months, between her last 2 tests (she gets tested every 6 months).
all of her previous encounters were PROTECTED (except for oral) with guys who get tested regularly (at most once each 2 years).
I'm getting paranoid because I've read that the tests are conclusive after 3 months from the last encounter.
8 months back she had a tumor removed but she never received a chemotherapy. she was prescribed some hormones the same the body creates during pregnancy (that's what her doctor said), but all of that ended 8 months ago.
We used to kiss deeply, I fingered her both ways and sucked her nipples many times.
We used to have PROTECTED vaginal sex.
She once gave me PROTECTED oral. and once put my penis in her mouth for 3 seconds.
And we had a PROTECTED brief (a minute or 2) anal sex only once.
I convinced her to get tested again next month. But, I'm still paranoid. was I at risk? all the odds are popping in my mind. I remember seeing a small (0.5 cm) outside her vagina after sex. I hate to be scared of her.
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Hi, protected sex risk is for Syphilis and herpes and her giving you unprotected oral would include Gono and you giving her oral same risk. But the risk is very low and if she did not have any genital or lip sores at the time the risk is close to zero.
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Hi, when you say that the risk is very low, you mean for Syphilis and herpes? or for Gonorrhea? or in general? Should I be paranoid? Should I get tested? can I keep doing what I'm doing with my girl?
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
