im a 20yo male and 6 dayz ago i had unprotected vaginal sex. around the 4-5th day my penis was itchy. now its really red and so are my balls, there are bumps on both. also is somewhat swollen around my skin where i was circumsized, as it is swollen spreading shows skin is glossy.. and a few times today i had a short sharp pain never in the same spot..this really sounds like herpes..god if it is im gonna become whatever it takes to develope a cure!!! ive noticed that taking hot showers will prolly make it worse, as i think ive done..cold ones for now on till i get to the doc! can i go to the emergency room with this? since my doc wont see me for a few weeks..but this is urgent..can i go to a clinic like- Planned Parenthood? will they be able to diagnose or provide prescription(s)?? what if any information can you help me with?