colds are very common and are contagious from touching surfaces as well as even just breathing within 3 feet of someone. no reason to think your symptoms are a std!!
Thank you guys for the comments. I guess I'm mainly worried cause of everything i read online which just added to the stress. My throat has been very scratchy all day and have been feeling like a cold is upon me. I'm just concerned since I read sumptoms include sore throat and fever. The only thing is my wife and her parents have had colds last week with simil a r symptoms. I am hoping its just coincidence.
WOAH, slow down. You was totally protected. If the condom was healthy (I.E didn't split) Then it doesn't matter weather the guy ejaculated or not, you would have been totally protected. You do not need any more tests, and certainly didn't need one to start with. Your fine. and I wish the best to you and your wife.
you performing protected oral sex is a no risk encounter.
if you performed oral sex, you never needed urine testing for std's either!!
don't confuse your guilt of having another partner mean you had any risk! you did what you were supposed to - protected contact. we recommend that it because it works!
grace