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Am I at risk?

Two days ago I had an encounter with a guy I met online. We kissed for a while, groped, and performed mutual masturbation. At one point, he put on a condom and I sucked him for about two minutes. Then I used my hand to make him ejaculate into the condom.

Since then I have been wracked with fear and guilt. I'm married and I don't want to get my wife sick because I made the worst decision of my life. I haven't been able to eat or sleep since this happened. What was my risk of catching an std? Should I get tested?

I can't stop focusing on this and googling more information. Just the thought makes me break out into a cold sweat.
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No you did not
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So I did not put my wife in danger? I would never be able to forgive myself if she got hurt over the worst decision of my life. It's amazing how thirty minutes can completely destroy everything that you worked for and believe in.
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You had no risk. Guilt/anxiety is the only think you have to worry about.
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