Worried about encounter with prostitute

[LonelynDaft]

I have recently been extremely lonely due to moving to the other side of the world.  On a drunk night out I made the absolutely stupid mistake of going to see a prostitute.  I have been feeling dirty and stupid ever since and I'd rather be lonely than ever do this again.  Im a 30 year old professional and feel I have seriously let myself down.

The one good thing is that I didnt have sex with her, instead I asked her to use her hands which she did.  The thing I am worried about is I also asked her to put her finger in my bum and to do this she used a condom.  The trouble is she couldn't open the wrapper and used her teeth.  She still struggled to open it and im worried that she would have got saliva on her fingers which would have been transferred to the outside of the condom before she put it inside me.  I dont know this happened but it very well could have.

The other concern I have is that (stupidly) I fingered her.  I wish I could turn back the clock and just go home but what is done is done.  My worry here is that when I put my clothes back on I probably touched my penis with the same hand to put it back in my shorts.

All this happened a week ago and I am thinking I should go and get myself tested but im not sure what to test for.  
I have no symptoms of anything at all, everything seems normal but im worried about what I might have let myself in for.  

Am I likely to contract anything in this way?  What shall I ask to be tested for?
Thank you for your help

[LonelynDaft]

Your absolutely right and I know that is the reason.  I have a plan after this and im sticking to it, i like cycling and the bike is on its way.  Ive been working on the route cause of all this for a few weeks now and i think i'll be back to the old me soon.  I guess the prostitute was the wake up call.  thanks for your help

[auntiejessi]

Since you seem to end up in situations you regret due to lonliness (and alcohol?), perhaps joining a club or something would help you meet some friends.

If you like hiking, join a hiking club.  If you like reading, join a book club.  You get the idea.  :)

Aj

[Vance2335]

Ok well the risk to aquire an STD from oral sex is low, but still a risk. You could get gonorrhea, NGU, syphilis or herpes from receiving oral sex. Giving you could get herpes or syphilis.
Since it was 2 months ago chances are you would see some symptoms.

[LonelynDaft]

Thanks for that, it makes me feel a bit better.  Since you have been kind enough to help with that question could you also help with one that happened 2 months ago.

Again for th same reason of loneliness I gave and recieved oral sex from a girl i met in a bar, not a prostitute and basically a really nice girl.  It was full oral sex with no kind of protection.  Again I have had no symptoms and dont believe I caught anything.  She was in a similar situation to me and I believed her when she said she had been single for a long time.

This is it now, no more sex of any kind until im in a proper relationship, im getting used to my surroundings and feeling like i need to get back to being my old responsible self again.

Anyway after 2 months of having no symptoms, should i be worried about anything from this?

Thanks so much for your help

[Vance2335]

No need to test, you did nothing that put you at risk for an STD. STD's are not transfered through saliva. That is why you can't get an STD from kissing.
Even fingering her has no risk associated with it.
Kissing, mutual masterbation, dry humping has no STD risk.

Being in a far off place and lonely will make us do things we would not normally do. I know how you feel and in time the feeling will go away.