I went for a massage 8 days ago and received a handjob and a few kisses. It was pretty vigorous. I got covered in oil and couldn't get it off. So I had 2 showers and 2 baths and scrubbed my genitals with washing up liquid and radox cause I thought it might get the oil out of my pubic hair. A couple of days later the very tip of my penis (at the end of the urethra) started itching and this has continued. My glans is red and sore on top and underneath and the area around my 'banjo string' is very red and moist. There is also a funny smell. I worry I may have developed an infection or balinitis. Even worse, I've read that Balinitis can precede an outbreak of HSV2. I can't see any spots, lumps or lesions. Any suggestions/advice would be greatly appreciated.