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Being fingered risks???

I have been looking at many sites and all are pretty erratic with answering this question, so i'd love to know the truth. I got fingered a few times by a guy who has slept around toooons. Does fingering put me at risks for any stds? if so, which ones?
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No, it is clearly not. A cold, maybe? But, nothing for you to worry about. I absolutely agree in what Vance is saying.
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To add I now have a fever and a slightly sore throat. Should I be worried that it correlates to this?
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Well the amount of people he's been with makes me think he has something, it's an insane amount. But as long as I wasn't at risk, then that is good. :)
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Oh and your anxiety is making you think that this guy probably has something. Most people don't have a STD and if someone does they get it taken care of when they find out that they do have something.
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Re read what I have already written and check out the anxiety cmmunity for some help dealing with your anxiety.
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Ok, i'm sorry, I know I shouldn't ask this twice, but I just want to make certain because I know this guy probably has something. So even if some of his stuff got on my parts, I do not have to worry about contracting anything?
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Alright, well thanks for the help!
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No oyu have no worry with that
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Sorry if this is tmi, but should I worry that he orgasmed on me near my vagina though I covered most of my vagina and then immediately went home to wash off?
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Use condoms for vaginal and anal sex and probably for oral sex even though it is low risk and you should not have any real worries.
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Thank you so much. I actually have an anxiety disorder, no doubt worrying over this would not help. It is relieving to know I was being safe. :)
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The internet is filled with junk. Junk websites and junk people giving advice. But also a lot of websites will base what they say on theory. In theory anything can happen, but actual science is what we use here.

In theory the earth could end tomorrow...is it going to happen...No. So that is 2 reasons why you can find anything on the internet.

Sometimes I love the internet and other times I hate it because it fuels people's anxiety when they come across something that is just wrong but due to a high level of anxiety over the situation they tend to believe it...trust me I was there at one point in my life.
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That is what I thought, but why do so many sites say differently?
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No being masterbated is not a risk for a STD. The fingers will never be infected with anything that would pose a risk for a STD. Now if fingers are dirty then other bacteria can be transmitted but not a STD.
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