Hello Medhelp Community,
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I am in a bit of panic at the moment. In the last week I had 3 encounters with CSWs where I was involved in mutual masturbation in two of those and protected oral and vaginal in the last one. The masturbation was on and off protection. But in the end I ejaculated in the condom.
I am very worried as I was involved in vaginal and oral sexual encounters. Feeling very guilty that I landed in such a situation. i was high when I went. I kissed her on the face and also around her chin but both of us kept ourselves from any deep kissing. Even she seemed to avoid it.
Then I touched her around her genitals and vagina but didn't go deep inside as I saw fluids there (she was wet). My fingers were on her vagina sort of rubbing her and not inside. I may have masturbated with the same hand before putting on the condom.
I was only in the missionary position and not any other and she was masturbating my penis (protected) on her vagina. I did not have a lot of sex as I was scared about stds. I was masturbating for most of it and then just ejaculated with my penis inside her. I am really am worried about the act as even skin to skin contact can cause HSV. I assume there was some rubbing if not proper sex but I did not notice any sores or anything unusual on her genitals. During sex I think I may have got some of her fluid on the part upper to the penis. I have hair so didn't notice well but I think i might have. I did not see any fluid on the bare skin of my penis. Even during oral I did not have any saliva on my bare penis, only on the condom. And I followed that with masturbation.
With the last woman, I have met her before where I was involved in mutual masturbation (protected).I had a word with her then. She said she doesn't carry any STDs. Told me she had got tested for hiv and was negative. But if she was positive at that moment could I get infected? I have done something very stupid and risky. I hope I've been able to put it across properly.
Right now my symptoms are that I have a painful/sore throat while swallowing. But I had this 3 days back as I had cold and cough which went away after a tablet. I do have some cough and mucus since then. I am really worried if it is an std. My last one was less than 2 days back from now. What my chances of infection or being safe here? Please help. Sorry for the long post.
Thank you