STD exposure from protected oral sex?

[unfaithful_50]

I had a protected oral sex on May 07, 2010. I fingered her while she was permorming oral on me. After fingering her, i touched her breasts with the same finger and i sucked her breasts. I am not sure whether her vaginal fluid went inside my mouth while sucking her breast. She also licked my thigh area before performing oral on me. After 4 weeks later, I saw a small lesion on my thigh area, but it went away next morning while taking bath. I also felt uncomfortable with my mouth when i eat spicy foods, i felt itchiness in my mouth at that time. I felt i contracted oral and genital herpes from the above exposure and went on to take the WHOLE STD package after 4 weeks and all came back NEGATIVE. I am also feeling headache for the last 2-3 weeks. I am planning to take another Herpes test next week (After 8 weeks).  Any advice on this exposure??

[Vance2335]

See a therapist you never even had a STD concern. You have let anxiety take over you and you will not get past it unless you get some mental health help.

[JessyJames2010]

1 and 3.

[unfaithful_50]

This is what i got from wrong diagnosis website.

http://forums.wrongdiagnosis.com/showthread.php?t=11883

I narrow down the issues to the following culprits:

1. Not enough intake of water - 70% of people got rid of this by drinking lot and lots of water
2. Fungul infection - Some anti-fungul cream resolved the issue for somebody
3. Anxiety
4. HPV or Micoplasma or Trich - No clear identification.

I am not into the habit of drinking enough water. Does that make 1) is the culprit? Or Can I try some anti-fungal cream? Or Is it the anxiety issue again?

Thanks for your reply

[unfaithful_50]

Hi,
Its been 15 weeks after the exposure, and Now I am feeling the tingling sensation in my genital area, I thought it was due to anxiety issue and once I tested for everything after 3 months period, it will go away. But it is coming back. I don't know what to do with this uncomfortable. I can't concentrate on anything... I am terrified. What do you guys think? I tested for everything, after 10 weeks, Gono, Chlamydia, syphilis, and HIV. after 12 weeks Herpes... Please advice me....

[JessyJames2010]

Your concerns are small matters.  Every male deals with these unfomfortable "penis tip on clothing" situation on a daily basis.   You have no STD concern.  Please see a therapist for your un necessary fears of every uncomfortable detail in life.  

[gracefromHHP]

you specifically asked for my 2 cents, not sure if this is the post you wanted it in or not but I"m putting it here..

you were never, ever, EVER at risk for a std from this encounter. You were never at risk for ngu from protected oral sex.  of course squeezing your penis will result in a clear fluid coming out - that's what happens when you do that!   You absolutely do not need to see an urologist at this point.

The guilt of this encounter you had is FAR out weighing any risk from the encounter.  You need to deal with this guilt and stop thinking you need additional testing and need to see specialists. If you can't do that, then spend your money more wisely with a counselor or therapist or if you are a religious person, sit down and discuss this with your clergy member.

Any further posts asking for help with this on the std board will be reported to the  moderators for excessive posting. there is nothing else we can help  you with since you were never at risk.  

grace

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Jessy,

Thanks for re-assurance. Yes I'll send the part of my money that i am wasting, If i am 100% sure that I dont have ANY STDs in my system, :)

Thanks

[JessyJames2010]

You should consider a theraphist or conciling for all this exessive testing.  Either that, or your should send me part of your money you are wasting.

I hope my humor allows you to see, that you never had, nor will have any serious concern from your encounter (Protected oral sex is NO risk for anything, even NGU).

[Aelly]

Why are you trying a no-risk situation? You need to stop or else you will be reprimanded for your excessive postings and trying to prove wrong on a no-risk situation. You never had a risk. Please seek mental help and understanding.

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance,
I would like to take NGU test. So i got an appointment with Urologist on thursday. but the nurse i called didn't know NGU. Then i told her about urinalysis; she understood.

Is elevated WBC in urinalysis is an indication of NGU? What should I do when i meet the urologist? If they are not testing for NGU, What should i do?

Thanks

[unfaithful_50]

Thanks Alley,

I understood now. Thanks for the clarification.

[Aelly]

You do not further testing anymore, friend. You are in the clear. This is anxiety driven and this case has been plaguing you for quite some time. Your symptoms are physical and neurological effects of anxiety driving you insane. You need no more testing. If you keep pushing the issue, the moderators will remove this thread and quite possibly remove you from this forum. Stop testing a no-risk situation. It seems you are determined to set yourself for a downfall from a so-called threat that has been clearly interpreted as 100-110% protected.

[unfaithful_50]

Hi,

Eventhough i've tested NEGATIVE for all STDs at 11th week, i still "feel" (not showing) some symptoms. Fraction of second i feel very heavy pain inside my penis (like poke a penis with a pin). It comes every 1 hour or so. It started like 2 days back.

I am terrified and the thing is all these symptoms are not consistent. I had itching for 1 week and then Headache for 1 week and tingling sensation on penis for one week and now this symptom.

Do you guys suggest testing for NGU? I do NOT have a painful urination or discharge so far.

What about public lice, scabies or Trich testing?

Thanks

Thanks

[unfaithful_50]

Hi,

Eventhough i've tested NEGATIVE for all STDs at 11th week, i still "feel" (not showing) some symptoms. Fraction of second i feel very heavy pain inside my penis (like poke a penis with a pin). It comes every 1 hour or so.

Anybody knows what is happening with me. But I am sure, something is going on with my body..

Thanks

[Vance2335]

Of course it was negative.

[unfaithful_50]

Hello Vance,

I got my 11th week results back and thank god, all came back NEGATIVE. I can now relax a little bit.

Chlamydia Nucleic Acid Amplification Test (NAA)                   Negative     
Hepatitis B Surface Antigen with Confirmation by Neutralization Negative
Hepatitis C Surface Antibody Test (Anti-HCV)                        <0.1
Gonorrhea Nucleic Acid Amplification Test (NAA)                Negative
Herpes Simplex Virus Type I IgG Test (HerpeSelect)                <0.91
Herpes Simplex Virus Type II IgG Test (HerpeSelect)                <0.91
HIV-1 Antibody Test with Reflex to Western Blot Confirmation      <1.00
HIV 1/O/2 Abs, Qual HIV 1/O/2 Abs, Qual                                Non Reactive
Syphilis Rapid Plasma Reagin (RPR) Test with Reflex to Quantitative RPR and Confirmatory TP-PA Non Reactive

Thanks

[Vance2335]

Read what I have already written.

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance or Grace!

Any answers for that last question?

Thanks

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance,

This is the last question I am gonna to ask you. Sorry for the trouble. Is developing black thin circle around the opening of penis a symptoms of any STD specially NGU or Syphilis?

Thanks

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance, This is a general question. Please answer me. I am terrified now as I have less than 3 months for my marriage.

I started feeling tingling sensation on my penis after 8 weeks. I have seen couple of times a one drop of watery discharge from my penis. Does this happens because my body produced enough antibodies to fight HSV? or If that is the symptoms of Herpes or NGU, that would have happened within first 3 weeks, right? If that is the first case, if I take another Herpes test this week (After 10 weeks), will it show up in the test?

Thanks

[badguysun]

i never new you could get something from receiving oral sex period lol thought wrong get help and lets overcome this problem together and enjoy our lives meanwhile pray to god!

[badguysun]

me too i mde the same mistake as you... hope i could find something new nd help u

[unfaithful_50]

Hi badguysun, if i knew that I will get an STD even with protected oral sex, I wouldn't have done that in my life. Now i am terrified that I dont know what to do.. I have a wonderful fiancee waiting for me. If i come to know that i have something, then I dont know what decision i have to take in my life.