STD exposure from protected oral sex?

[unfaithful_50]

I had a protected oral sex on May 07, 2010. I fingered her while she was permorming oral on me. After fingering her, i touched her breasts with the same finger and i sucked her breasts. I am not sure whether her vaginal fluid went inside my mouth while sucking her breast. She also licked my thigh area before performing oral on me. After 4 weeks later, I saw a small lesion on my thigh area, but it went away next morning while taking bath. I also felt uncomfortable with my mouth when i eat spicy foods, i felt itchiness in my mouth at that time. I felt i contracted oral and genital herpes from the above exposure and went on to take the WHOLE STD package after 4 weeks and all came back NEGATIVE. I am also feeling headache for the last 2-3 weeks. I am planning to take another Herpes test next week (After 8 weeks).  Any advice on this exposure??

[Vance2335]

No risk, no need to test. You can not get herpes form masterbating someone and from indirect contact.

[unfaithful_50]

Thanks Vance, I tested only for Herpes after exactly 8 weeks using HerpeSelect blood test and it came back NEGATIVE. I know it is little bit early to test for herpes. Considering my exposure, is it OK to take this as conclusive? I also feel some tingling sensation in my penis (like cell phone vibration..) for the last 3-4 days. I am terrified now. Please advice.

[Vance2335]

You said "Thanks Vance" but clearly from your new question you did not read my responce to you.

[Aelly]

Do listen to Vance and understand from protected oral sex, you had no risk at all.

[unfaithful_50]

I did read your response. But i have anxiety problem, thats why i repeated the test. it gives me a peace of mind. Thanks to all. I can move on with my life now ....

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance,

Sorry to come back again. I have only one final question. I had tested for everything except NGU. Since most of the STD testing package doesn't include testing for NGU. I just want to ruled out the NGU also.

1. What are the chances of getting NGU from one time protected oral sex?
2. I started feeling tingling sensation on my penis after 8 weeks with no clear discharge or pain when urinating. Does this sounds like NGU?

Thanks

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance, For the last 2 days, I dont feel the tingling sensation in my penis, but in the morning when I squeeze my penis, I see only one drop of discharge in the color of water, but it not looks like water or seman, it is very thick. What could be this? One more thing is, I really have to squeeze to see this discharge and it is not constant, it happens only in the morning after I wake up and before urinate. I am really terrified. I am getting married in 3 months. I just want to get over this. Thanks for your help.

[badguysun]

hi unfaithful i'm in a very similar situation as you and i'm looking for more informations on NGU let's help each other out ...

[unfaithful_50]

Hi badguysun, if i knew that I will get an STD even with protected oral sex, I wouldn't have done that in my life. Now i am terrified that I dont know what to do.. I have a wonderful fiancee waiting for me. If i come to know that i have something, then I dont know what decision i have to take in my life.

[badguysun]

me too i mde the same mistake as you... hope i could find something new nd help u

[badguysun]

i never new you could get something from receiving oral sex period lol thought wrong get help and lets overcome this problem together and enjoy our lives meanwhile pray to god!

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance, This is a general question. Please answer me. I am terrified now as I have less than 3 months for my marriage.

I started feeling tingling sensation on my penis after 8 weeks. I have seen couple of times a one drop of watery discharge from my penis. Does this happens because my body produced enough antibodies to fight HSV? or If that is the symptoms of Herpes or NGU, that would have happened within first 3 weeks, right? If that is the first case, if I take another Herpes test this week (After 10 weeks), will it show up in the test?

Thanks

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance,

This is the last question I am gonna to ask you. Sorry for the trouble. Is developing black thin circle around the opening of penis a symptoms of any STD specially NGU or Syphilis?

Thanks

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance or Grace!

Any answers for that last question?

Thanks

[Vance2335]

Read what I have already written.

[unfaithful_50]

Hello Vance,

I got my 11th week results back and thank god, all came back NEGATIVE. I can now relax a little bit.

Chlamydia Nucleic Acid Amplification Test (NAA)                   Negative     
Hepatitis B Surface Antigen with Confirmation by Neutralization Negative
Hepatitis C Surface Antibody Test (Anti-HCV)                        <0.1
Gonorrhea Nucleic Acid Amplification Test (NAA)                Negative
Herpes Simplex Virus Type I IgG Test (HerpeSelect)                <0.91
Herpes Simplex Virus Type II IgG Test (HerpeSelect)                <0.91
HIV-1 Antibody Test with Reflex to Western Blot Confirmation      <1.00
HIV 1/O/2 Abs, Qual HIV 1/O/2 Abs, Qual                                Non Reactive
Syphilis Rapid Plasma Reagin (RPR) Test with Reflex to Quantitative RPR and Confirmatory TP-PA Non Reactive

Thanks

[Vance2335]

Of course it was negative.

[unfaithful_50]

Hi,

Eventhough i've tested NEGATIVE for all STDs at 11th week, i still "feel" (not showing) some symptoms. Fraction of second i feel very heavy pain inside my penis (like poke a penis with a pin). It comes every 1 hour or so.

Anybody knows what is happening with me. But I am sure, something is going on with my body..

Thanks

[unfaithful_50]

Hi,

Eventhough i've tested NEGATIVE for all STDs at 11th week, i still "feel" (not showing) some symptoms. Fraction of second i feel very heavy pain inside my penis (like poke a penis with a pin). It comes every 1 hour or so. It started like 2 days back.

I am terrified and the thing is all these symptoms are not consistent. I had itching for 1 week and then Headache for 1 week and tingling sensation on penis for one week and now this symptom.

Do you guys suggest testing for NGU? I do NOT have a painful urination or discharge so far.

What about public lice, scabies or Trich testing?

Thanks

Thanks

[Aelly]

You do not further testing anymore, friend. You are in the clear. This is anxiety driven and this case has been plaguing you for quite some time. Your symptoms are physical and neurological effects of anxiety driving you insane. You need no more testing. If you keep pushing the issue, the moderators will remove this thread and quite possibly remove you from this forum. Stop testing a no-risk situation. It seems you are determined to set yourself for a downfall from a so-called threat that has been clearly interpreted as 100-110% protected.

[unfaithful_50]

Thanks Alley,

I understood now. Thanks for the clarification.

[unfaithful_50]

Hi Vance,
I would like to take NGU test. So i got an appointment with Urologist on thursday. but the nurse i called didn't know NGU. Then i told her about urinalysis; she understood.

Is elevated WBC in urinalysis is an indication of NGU? What should I do when i meet the urologist? If they are not testing for NGU, What should i do?

Thanks

[Aelly]

Why are you trying a no-risk situation? You need to stop or else you will be reprimanded for your excessive postings and trying to prove wrong on a no-risk situation. You never had a risk. Please seek mental help and understanding.