Could I have NGU? Please HELP?

[bfrapple]

After protected sex 4 months ago at a massage parlor I have developed upper and lower abdominal pain with burning and fullness, along with lower back pain. I had sex with my wife a month and a half after exposure and she developed a bad UTI and the same abdominal pressure and back pain as I have. She has taken 3 courses of antibotics and still has some symptoms.  I Have had 2 chlamydia and Gonorrhea urine tests and both were negative. 7 days of doxy and a penicillian shot just in case.  I have recently had a full panel std test done, HIV, Hep B/C, Herp 1 & 2 Syphilis, trich, and chlamydia and gonorrhea all neg.  What could this be? A different STD? Could this be NGU? Am I missing any STD?

[Life360_Dave]

To get NGU the germs would need to get inside your penis but since you used a condom nothing could get inside and your symptoms are not std related.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi the symptoms you are having are not std related and using a condom you could not contract things that could enter your penis like gono and chlamydia. the only test your missing for your wifes protection is herpes.

[bfrapple]

Thank you for the comment.  I did have the herpes test done with the full panel.  So in you opinion I could not have caught something? You dont think it could be NGU?  Its just strange that we both feel some of the same issues.