3 days ago I had anal intercourse with a condom the day before i noticed i had a lump that looked like a hemorroid but it didnt hurt or itch, the day of the intercourse i was bleeding a bit from my anus and i notice 2 small cuts which i tought it was normal in anal intercourse. The day after i was feeling pretty uncomfortable in my anus and it started to itch, today is the 3rd day after intercourse and i feel very itchy but it doesnt burn. I took a mirror and looked at my anus to see if I was able to recognize if it was a blister or a hemorroid and after looking at the area I am confuse im not sure if is an outbreak or a rupture hemorroid. Need help. My partner did use a condom for anal intercourse and I remember not having any itchiness or pain the day before the intercourse. I am positive for hsv2, but never had outbreaks in my anal canal. My questions are:
1. Do herpes blisters appear inside the anal where we pass stool or around it? (The last two times i had a blister was in the cheek close to the anus but not really in the anal canal)
2. How can i tell if is an outbreak or a hemmorroid
3. Was my partner exposed to herpes even using protection? He did fingered me after intercourse.
Pleaee need help.