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Confused about something - Frottage question

Hey guys,

I have a question. I'm a male.

I know stds can't pass through clothing, but what if the clothing is thin, or has like little spaces in the fabric like mesh gym shorts? (I have had grinded with a girl wearing only these shorts and her naked)

I rarely wear underwear, and I noticed a pair of jeans I wear sometimes have little frayed areas (not like holes, but little frayed areas) near the crotch, from just general use and wear over the past few years. If you hold the pants up to the light, you can kinda see through those areas and some tiny spaces are definitely there. Could STDs pass through these areas if I were to grind on a girl who was naked, and I had these pants on with no underwear underneath?


Thank you!
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207091 tn?1337709493
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No it can't.

Aj
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Yeah, its not slipping out. I haven't worn them to the bedroom yet, and don't plan on it now haha.

What about with like mesh basketball shorts though? It can't go through the small spaces in the fabric, right?
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207091 tn?1337709493
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If the pants are zipped, and the fabric is just worn, how is anything slipping out?

Maybe just don't wear those jeans in the bedroom.

Aj
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Thanks Auntie Jessi!

I don't wear these jeans outside, but I might put them on the bedroom, and I was just curious. Thanks for clarifying about all of this!

What about slight insertion with clothes on (any clothes, that is)? Like if you're grinding against her vagina pretty heavily with clothes on and the tip of your penis is pushing against her vaginal opening? It must push a little inside...I have never remembered any actual insertion, but I guess its possible if you're grinding that hard. You would know if you actually went inside her with clothes on, right? Is going inside her with clothes on a risk?

Thanks, and I promise no more questions!

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207091 tn?1337709493
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Yes, I got that lol - the fabric is worn.  It still won't go through it.

Aj
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Don't worry either haha, you can't see through the frayed areas when I have the pants on.

Just like if you were to take off the pants and hold them up to the light, you could sorta see the light coming through. Does this make any sense?
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207091 tn?1337709493
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No.  STDs are fragile, and really do take direct skin to skin or fluid transfer to transmit.

Aj
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