I have no idea where you are reading such things.
First, 25 days is a little late for ARS, if that's what you had. You have a sore throat. That could be anything.
For more info on this, see the HIV Prevention forum. They have many posts where its all been explained already.
AJ
I couldn't stop worrying and went got a rapid HIV test today at the local health dept. It came back negative which is a good thing but still it was only after 25 days now. What about my swollen throat, could that be a sympton of ARS or am I just overworrying. Also I heard you cant test positive while you are having ARS. What do you think?
You are worrying yourself sick.
First, most people don't have HIV. Even if your partner had it, your chances of getting it are like 1 in 20,000 exposures if your partner was female.
ARS symptoms are vague and ambiguous, at best, and no one should base an HIV fear on them. Most people don't even get ARS. In all my years of working in this field, I have seen one true case of ARS, and he was very sick.
An earache wouldn't be ARS anyway, and perhaps you just have allergies or a cold. Stress can also cause aches and pains, as well.
Aj