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So I have found out that I am pregnant.. I really don't no how far along I am but I have a appointment in a couple days .. I have herpes but my boyfriend (baby's father: doesn't know .. I have been with him for 6 months & we both got checked out .. when he came from the doc they didn't say anything to him... that's what he said .. but when I went they had told me I have chlamydia , ghonaria & herpes .. I only told my boyfriend about the chlamydia .. he than got treatment for it to .. but I think he might have gave it to me . isnt it werd to go to the doctors & they sayu have nothing bit your partner goes & they have all this and that ? I'm confused .. I'm just scared to say anything about it .. but now that I am pregnant isn't he going to find out by my doctor maybe ? If he is at my appointment ? Pleaseee someonee hellllllppp
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Yaa I think its best to tell him yourself becoz if he is going to find out abt that from the Dr he will also take advantage of putting the blame on u even if he is the one who give it to you.please take your medication well and also eeat healthy food so that u will recover very soon
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You should tell him. Its wrong for u to not let him know and its wrong if he isnt telling u. But u cant really be mad about him lying if u r also. I think u should just get everything out in the open and maybe he will be honest too. And u can both be treated and figure out where to go with your relationship but i think u just need to be honest. Then talk to ur doctor and make sure u r treated and your baby is healthy.
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