Since you're straight, you were probably treated with standard protocols for gonorrhea which are fluoroquinolone and tetracycline drugs. This would take care of most the infection. However, if you live on the west coast, you may have encountered an antibiotic resistant strain of gonorrhea that needs to be treated with cephalasporin antibiotics. I've had to play this game too...and its annoying. But stay on top of it...and continue treating it as long as necessary. Between the antibiotics and your immune system you should eventually clear the infection.. however, the two of you may be reinfecting each other too soon. I'd suggest a good solid 30 days of celebacy and continued treatment. Or perhaps because of your allergies you were treated with cephalasporins and he was not. You got better, but he continued to harbor and then reinfected you... not sure.
Thanks for the prompt response. I actually have an allergy to the cephalosporin drugs, so I was treated with a different med. The strange thing is we both retested 2 times and got negative results, then a few weeks later, I have it again. He is getting retested today. The doctors seem as confused about it as we are. Have you seen recurrences like this happen before? I've been researching and can't seem to find anything. I was just re-prescribed the same pills as before. I'm thinking I should request a different antibiotic. Any thoughts?
My biggest concern for you would be that you're dealing with an antibiotic resistant strain. When you treat it, it kills off the bulk of the infection but not everything. Thus leaving you open for a re-emergence of the bacteria. Being alergic to cephelasporins is definintely not the position you want to be in when dealing with ARG. (antibiotic resistant gonorrhea). You might wanna talk to the doc about mixing you up a cocktail to see if a more broad scale approach would be better.
My other theory is your boyfriend is the culprit. Not that he's cheating on you or anything, but rather if he's harboring gonorrhea in his prostate. A number of men, particularly as they age, have prostate stones. The stones calcify in the prostate and they become nasty reservoirs of bacterias. They become troublesome because antibiotics have a difficult time penetrating the prostate, let along solidified calcium. Since he's already dealing with NGU, this might explain something. What antibiotics is he taking? Secondly, you might wanna have him get an ultrasound of his prostate. If he has stones.. you might be on to something.