Handjob with vaginal fluid

[Worriedsinceday1]

I had protected vaginal sex after that I had handjob with vaginal fluid. I know handjob possess no risk. But my concern is I used to have balantis most of the time. I checked after handjob my penis was red but there was no skin ruptured. May I in risk ?

[Life360_Dave]

With the protected sex, if the condom did not break and no part of your pubic mound area made rubbing contact with her pubic area thenits zero risk but it if did then you have a low risk to contract herpes and syphilis. Testing would only be recommned if you are in a long term relationship or if y ou develop any sores or rashes some time after.
dave

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

As you were advised, you had no risk for any disease from this event.  There is nothing more for our members to say.

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[Worriedsinceday1]

Maam I am not concerned about bacterial std . It's already 80 days passed I am literally paranoid about hep b only as one of sexologist suggested me that it can transmit this way .

[Worriedsinceday1]

Hello ! Even if having no risk exposure I have abdominal pain and skin rash and little muddish eye and skin is fine but I have multiple rash . I was not vaccinated for hep b in my childhood so I asked last time about hep b .

[auntiejessi]

You had no risk to get anything, so your symptoms are not from an STD. You should see your doctor for your symptoms. They are not STDs symptoms - no STD causes those.

[Worriedsinceday1]

Thank you ma'am ! Is it even applicable to hep b ?

[auntiejessi]

Yes, if you had a risk for anything, I'd tell you.  

[Worriedsinceday1]

Hello Auntijessie !! Thank you . It was my first time . Totally newbie to this world . So I had zero knowledge  about std. I had protected sex and it posses zero risk . This whatvi learnt from this website.
2. Handjob with vaginal fluid is a no risk and I went through your some of replies.
3. Balantis of me is not persistent but come and go type . I was worried  because if there was any cut in my glan because of balantis which I might not notice cause that time I thought I had protected sex .s o I should move on but later I got to know if vaginal fluid come in to contact with wound it may infect.
4. Does this secondary touch to any wound of mine make me infect ?

[auntiejessi]

There is no risk here. If you had a risk from a secondary touch or a wound or anything, I would have told you.

Since you are new to this world -

You get STDs from unprotected oral sex, penis in vagina sex, or penis in anus sex.

Heavy grinding or rubbing might transmit herpes, HPV and syphilis, if it's "rough" enough - if there's enough friction and enough time.

Condoms don't offer full protection for herpes, HPV and syphilis, because those are transmitted by direct skin to skin contact, and condoms don't cover all your skin. They do offer significant protection, though, and most experts don't think one act of condom protected sex warrants testing.

Handjobs never transmit STDs.

Balanitis can be caused by improper cleaning. In case no one has taught you this (and I'm constantly surprised at how many men don't know this) -

https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/how-to-keep-a-penis-clean/

Balanitis can also be caused by harsh soaps. Use a gentle cleanser.

[Worriedsinceday1]

Thank you for response . I was worried about the fungal infection I had . I checked there was no skin break but fear is if there was and I might not notice

[auntiejessi]

There is no risk from any of this.

Hands don't transmit STDs. All of your details don't matter - they die quickly with all the movement and exposure to air.

Washing your hands after sex feels good, but it doesn't actually do anything to prevent STDs because hands don't transmit STDs.

You mention that you had bumps not seen by the naked eye, but when you "checked properly", you could see them. I don't know what that means, but you don't need to be taking a magnifying glass, or using your phone to magnify or whatever. Just check on a regular basis - if you are regularly sexually active, check a couple of times a week. That's it.

Do you still have balanitis? Get that checked by your doctor if you do. If it's a past infection, it isn't relevant now.

[Worriedsinceday1]

1. Skin I checked there was no rupture but there were a lot of red tiny bumps which is not visible in normal Eye but when I checked properly I saw it and there was no break in skin.
2. I forgot to wash my hand after insertion and after doing several things after twenty minutes I drunk water. I think virus in hand might have cleared while wearing clothes shoe door flush lift and holding railing bar bedsheet.
3. I washed hand twice in normal water  after the exposure then I had my food. I had sore throat due to tonsillitis. Does it cause infection if comes in contact with sore throat ?