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Hello, I wany to know the chances I get any STD/STIs

Hello, recently I had an intercourse with a transgender escort. (Disclaimer: I asked when was the last the she checked, she said 1 month ago and nothing came positive)

So basically what I did :
1. I had a healing mouth ulcer, I just kissed her neck, back, and nipple sucking. NO kissing/french kissing. I dont give her any oral sex to her genital or anus.
2. She gave me an oral sex ( I used condom during oral )
3. I had an anal intercourse, I am the one penetrating ( using condom too)
4. She performed rimming on me.

Based on those what I did, what are the chances I get any STD/STI.
Thank you
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She uses condoms and tests to help protect herself from people like you. I  know you think she's doing it for you but she's probably concerned about the people who frequent paid for sex and wants to protect herself. That's quite motivating for her, I'm sure. Evidenced by her usage of condoms. So, good for her! She's responsible.

Kissing her neck, back and body is not a risk.
Protected oral and anal had that barrier to be considered safe sex.
She licked your anus. Scant risk.

Overall, this was a safe encounter and I would not worry. Virtually no risk for the most part and so minimal otherwise that you do not need testing of any sort unless you develop some type of symptom. And please check your anxiety when it comes to that a the mind begins to think anything and everything is a symptom and it's just mental health related. Don't hyper focus on it because reality is, there is such a tiny chance, I'd be shocked if anything appeared.
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Hi, thank you for your answer. So even if there’s mouth ulcer kissing nipples/or body wont have any effect?

May I ask what do you mean by scant risk?
I'm guessing you struggle with anxiety and let me just say that without judgment, I don't think people that do should frequent escorts. Mental health that is fragile should avoid triggers.

What std does a nipple or neck have? THINK about it. Makes zero logical sense. Cooties? No. There is no std to get from nipples, neck and back. Period. And NO, if she had a mouth ulcer, she's not going to give you anything to your nipple or body.

Scant risk. Scant means  limited; meager; not large: a scant amount. Meaning it's not a worry unless you develop a symptom. There is so little chance that it isn't worth your breath or energy talking about it.

she protected herself. And in doing so, protected you.
I don’t frequent escorts, and that was just curiosity. Yes I have anxiety, what makes me more anxious is because what I read on the internet that says theoretically even with condom, still has chance to transmit stds such as herpes

Thank you so much for your answer
you're welcome for the answer.
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