Thank you for your insight... That's what I have been thinking... I know the truth, even if he won't tell me. It's just a giant smack in the face!!
Hunni this is a HUGE ******** story. You need to get yourself tested, and think about what kind of relationship you really have had this past 9years.
You got cheated and lied to.
I'm sorry, but that sounds like the biggest lie ever.