Help please freaking out

[Thefallendreams]

So here's my story I had sex with a girl of unknown status and about 2-4 weeks after the encounter I had sore throat swollen lymph nodes in my neck(under my jaw,and on side) some diarrhea and this lasted only a few days.I had no fever or rash or anything else.but still what led ke to worry was I searched my symptoms on the Internet and the first thing was HIV.so I had been stressed about it prior.I got a test at about one and a half to two months and it was negative.which eased my kind but I'm still worried about the whole thing and check myself for symptoms.no one I had sex with after the incident and before I started worrying eer had any symptoms but still I worry.my most recent relationship was 9 months and we had sex and she never had any signs or anything (btw i did tell her about my worries and fears before us having sex and shensaid inwas being stupid)so yea I guess my question is do I still have a right to worry or qm I doing as my ex said and being stupid and to worried about the whole thing.thanks for your time  

[Thefallendreams]

Thanks for the response but it didn't really answer my question was the test a false or was there enough time to be sure I haven't been worrying near as much now.but I still do sometimes and since no one I've been with since has shown any signs of it is that evidence I don't have it or should I be worried still I mean with a negative test and no fever or anything that is the most.common symptom should that be conclusive enough to knoe im truly negative

[JessyJames2010]

Hello

I do NOT  think your stupid.  Having unprotected sex is like playing --- I think a good doctor called it, "Sexual Russian Roulette" ---of course there are more empty barrels for HIV.

As for other STDs, the risk is a bit higher, and its still there.   Your sexual health is important, and you should share those views with others.   Get tested and wear condoms --they work.