Help!

[TomAces]

I already posted about this issue, but I have not got any info yet. I had sex with an Asian massage lady and the condom broke. She told me to go inside her and I was very intoxicated and did like an idiot. I pulled out and saw it was broke. she assured me I had nothing to worry about and that she was clean and 2days later it feels like I always have to pee. Could this be anything else

Has this ever happened to anyone else? All this worry is pushing me overt the edge. I've never done anything like this before and I have a gf. Any advice or words of encouragement would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
Thomas

[TomAces]

Update: Went in and got tested. Results for chlamydia and gonnhorea came back negative. My symptoms have disappeared as well.

[TomAces]

Do you think there is an HIV risk?

[TomAces]

Thanks for the info Grace. I got tested today at PP for chlamydia, gonorrhea, and UTI but out of impatience waiting for results I went to Albertson's and bought a uti home test kit. It came out clear which worries me. I was hoping that's what it would be. Is there anything else it could be other than the three things I was tested for? Grace I know you stated that the oil could have irritated it but would it last for a week? I really appreciate your guys info. It's helping keep me somewhat dane. Thanks again.

[TomAces]

Thanks for the info Grace. I got tested today at PP for chlamydia, gonorrhea, and UTI but out of impatience waiting for results I went to Albertson's and bought a uti home test kit. It came out clear which worries me. I was hoping that's what it would be. Is there anything else it could be other than the three things I was tested for? Grace I know you stated that the oil could have irritated it but would it last for a week? I really appreciate your guys info. It's helping keep me somewhat dane. Thanks again.

[gracefromHHP]

please just keep adding to this post. We are not sitting here 24/7 answering posts so not getting a reply in a few hours isn't unusual at all.

You can go and be seen today or tomorrow and have some basic urine testing done to look for signs of infection. If they used massage oils on your penis with the massage, they can sometimes cause urinary frequency too.

A condom break is always worrisome but the odds of contracting a std from a one time, mostly protected encounter are very low. I would only recommend follow up testing only because you have a regular partner to protect.

grace

[TomAces]

Thank you for the info. I am hoping its a urinary infection or something because my symptoms were almost immediate.I have been trying to avoid her but staying celibate for a full month will be impossible and she will know there is something wrong. We are supposed to be moving in together soon too. I'll have to just bite the bullet and tell her what happened and hope she will forgive. I can't take the chance of possibly getting her infected. Very tough lesson to learn. Thanks again for the info.

[TomAces]

Thank you for the info. I am hoping its a urinary infection or something because my symptoms were almost immediate.I have been trying to avoid her but staying celibate for a full month will be impossible and she will know there is something wrong. We are supposed to be moving in together soon too. I'll have to just bite the bullet and tell her what happened and hope she will forgive. I can't take the chance of possibly getting her infected. Very tough lesson to learn. Thanks again for the info.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi Thomas, dont be overly worried about this as one time affairs usually dont amount to much and 2 days is too soon for any symptoms to develop. 5 days is more likely for any penis irritation issues to show up. Normaly no testing is required with the lack of symptoms OR if you have a long term partner. Test below at the given window period.
1. HIV 28 days with the DUO test
2. Syphilis----6 weeks
3. Gono, chlamydia, Trich----7 days
4. Herpes----3 months
It would be highly advised to obstain from sex with your girl till your tests are confimed. This is for her protection.