Hi doctor, im pretty stressed out and wanted to see if someone can help me out. The thing is started having disconfort and redness in my vulva one day, I noticed it when I applied a vaginal spray. The next day I got more burning, a lot of burning, it hurt a lot and It was getting worse every minute. There was also swelling and redness and I thougth I saw a rash. By the third day I could hardly do anything, a lot of burning, I couldnt sit down or lie down, it made the pain/burning worse. I hardly slept. It doesnt itch, I now have a plaque that looks like "cotton" in the vulva, no ithc but extreme pain. I cant do a thing, I havent slept and sitting down or being other that standing up is unbearrable.I also noticed tender inguinal lymphadenopathy. Im feeling very tired. I am a virgin but my boyfriend has made oral sex to me. I had oral sex about 3 days before this began and he had a flare up about two days after the last oral sex. Im very scared this can be herpes but it also sounds like yeast. PLEASE help!!