Your right grace,
I do notice more "clear" fluid comes out when a woman handles my handle, than when I do it to myself. The psychology is sex is quite interesting.
this clear discharge is normal dear. as jessy already pointed out, your body likes what your gf is doing to you :)
www.iwannaknow.org has terrific info on sex, condom use, std's and pregnancy prevention and all aimed at teens. I recommend you and your gf both check it out to learn more :)
grace
"The clear substance that appear first is called precum, its also called semen or prostate secretions, and can be a mix of all that. Sometimes it even has small traces of sperm. "
ok thank you for your help you have been a real help to me but one last question if you do not mind, so what do you think this clear substance is ?
Forgot to mention the oral sex aspect.
Oral sex in general poses a low risk encounter for STDs. The low risk ones are gonorrhea and non-chlamydial NGU, syphilis and herpes.
I don't think you have none of these.
I think this is coincidence that clear fluid comes up when your girlfriend does it and it doesn't come up with you do it to yourself.
I'll shine in a little secret with you... its normal for clear fluid to come out regardless of who's doing the "work". Then maybe your gf does a better job. I hope you sense my humor -- and that should tell you that there is nothing wrong with you with in respects to STDs.
i have had oral sex before and i was worried about this are you sure this is not penile discharge i dont get this druing the morning or such i just get it when my gilfriend gives me a hand job but it does not happen when i do it
Don't worry you are using the correct words. It is okay to say "masturbation", "sex", "vagina", "penis" and "humping" here.
Please explore you body more, and get to know what happens upon self masturbration. The clear substance that appear first is called precum, its also called semen or prostate secretions, and can be a mix of all that. Sometimes it even has small traces of sperm.
The exposure you describe (your girlfriend masturbates you or gives you a hand job) poses ZERO risk for ALL STDs.
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