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I'm freaking out good info would be great

Hello, I am here because I am scared to death I might have contracted an std and even worse possibly transmitted it to my girlfriend.  About 5 weeks ago I went to a strip club. A stripper gave me oral sex on my flaccid penis.  For about 15 seconds.  Time frame probably doesn't matter.  Two seconds could be two too long.  There was also genital rubbing.  I believe she had some cloths covering her parts for this put don't remember. I did not notice any lesion, cuts, sores or anything in or around her vagina or anywhere else for that matter.   Did have any problems till about three to four weeks later.  
     After seeing my girlfriend again and having unprotected sex I have been devastated by guilt ever since and can not get it out of my head.  I began noticing the head of my penis looked more wrinkly then usual.  Of the course of the next couple of weeks I have been feeling  a slight irritation/rawness on the tip of my penis right In the opening.  It doesn't hurt when I pee or ejaculate and no other pain, soreness or spots.   I have been tired, probably from lack of sleep do to the guilt.  Headaches and stomach pains/ quizzyness, probably from the alcohol.  The redness and rawness on the tip of my penis has not gone away but has not gotten worse either.  I can not leave it alone, constantly check for new signs or anything getting worse.  I plan on going in to get tested tomorrow.   I plan on have the full board givin to me.  I was hope others might have some useful in sight in the best way to go about this.  Good places to get tested,  going to a private doctor,  special test that I should request and so fourth.  Any info would be much appreciated.  
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Hi, to be at risk for contracting things like Gono from the oral sex, your penis would need to make contact with the back of her throat to be at risk so if this did not happen you can rule Gono out. Symptoms would appear in about 5 days that consist of white puss discharge and burning while urinating. Other than that herpes would be the risk but if she did not have any lip sores at the time your risk for that would be close to zero.
Your tip irritation is almost certainly from your constant pulling to check.
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Also,  what is the time frame from after exposure to take these test?  I am at the 5 week point
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