First, you were having condom-protected sex. HE took it off, not you.
You should have said something, but you were drunk. That gets you off the hook a bit and he knows he's taking a risk with a drunk person-inhibitions are down, decision-making is poor.
He may or may not want to be in a relationship. I wish you luck with that. If he does, ok, if he doesn't, there are other fish on the sea.
If it helps, I was in a similar situation ten years ago. Had unprotected sex with a woman. She later got tested and discovered she had herpes 2, presumably for years. She contacted me and told me and I got tested-negative.
We dated for years, she took the drugs, we had unprotected sex for years, I never got herpes-have tested negative many times since then.
Good luck to you! Seems best to start with the truth. I don't think you can be blamed for this guy's pulling condom off on mid-sex. By the way, if you DO end up dating him, maybe full STD tests for both-especially him-are in order?
Agreed. Fair statement. Easier said than done. I feel like that will ruin all possibilities of a relationship. But you are right
You could just tell him the truth. Probably a good way to start the relationship.