Please provide clarity for receptive oral sex risk factors

[theoverthinker]

Just 2 days ago, I made the mistake of visiting a massage parlor with the expectation of a massage and hand job. While my eyes were closed, I felt her putting a condom on my penis with her mouth. In the moment, I didn't choose to stop her and she continued to perform oral sex on me until I finished. I do not recall there being a time where her mouth or saliva touched my exposed skin but I'm not 100% positive. I'm overly concerned about sti's as I do have a girlfriend, and also concerned because I am leaving the country for vacation in 2 more days and it would be less than ideal to have an sti while stuck in another country. My questions:

1) Is receptive oral sex with a condom as close to 100% safe as possible? What are the risk factors with this type of act?

2) I didn't know the type of condom, should that be a concern? (lamb skin vs latex)

3) I have had hsv1 since childhood. Is it true that even if I was exposed to it during this incident that it would not affect a new site? Although, I did not notice any sores on the woman.

4) What are the risk factors for chlamydia or other bacterial infections? If I were to be infected, how soon would sympotoms appear.

5) Based on the described act, is it safe to continue relations with my girlfriend as we will be vacationing together this week.

Thank you in advance for a response.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi,
1. its 100% safe. Her saliva dribbling down the condom would not present any risk.
2. No a concern the type with oral.
3. correct it would not.
4. no risk as nothing could enter your urethra.
5. yes. If no skin contact was made outside the condom you had no risk for herpes or syphilis.as these are the 2 topical std,s for risk.

[theoverthinker]

Thank you.... it's amazing what a strong case of anxiety can do to a person. My guilt has convinced me that I could have easily contracted something. However I hope to agree with you that a condom makes oral risk nonexistent.