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Please Help I Feel Like Im Losing My Mind.....

Can u please help me out with this  ... I had unprotected sex beg of feb I had tests done in week 7 after exposure results = negative .... But there is something wrong I constanty have thrush, my penis has tiny bumps in the head and looks wribkly , it hurts to stay hard and feels luke pulsating Pain along my penis and before my this pain was down my arms and legs ... My hands recently dried up and began to crack ans now they got a strange glow to them my fingers tips feel fried and  since a few days ago  my tongue has felt on fire ... It almost feels like all my amenities are getting burnt ... I have lost my sex drive became very worrisome about my condition and had spells of diarrhea and fever ...... When I took my test I told my dr my symtoms he tile me to forget about them that I'm building then up my head but they are  to obvious to ignore... I was with a girl last night and she asked why are your hands so rough..... I can't go on like this I need some answers... What should I do and what do u think this is......  
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yes you an test for herpes before 4 months but not conclusive, unless you have an outbreak.
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thanks for the info, is there any way to check for herpes before month 4???

im getting my tests done again this week... it will be week 14 after exposure so just over 3 months..... im quite sure its not herpes as the bumps i have are not puss filled and i havnt had any other bumps anywhere else on my body other then my extrementilies including my tongue and penis........

I dont think its HIV as ive done so much research and talked to many many people on poz.ca( a hiv online chatsite)they said my symptoms are not hiv- like and its very very rare if not impossible to test positive after a negative test in 6-8 weeks after exposure unless the test was not accurate....

That leaves me only with the clindida.... very similair symptoms to hiv....looked up pics on google imgaes of clindida hands and they look very similar to mine... and no other std has a symptom of thrush including the tip of the tongue being burnt......

I guess the only way to know for sure is get the tests done... and see a clindida doc as there is not much talk about this std or whatever u wanna call it.....
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Herpes and HIV are conclusive 4 months and 3 months.

STD's do not travel through the body and show symptoms here then there then some place different.
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Thank u fir the reply , I have. Been telling myself to forget about this but everyone I do I get reminder that something is not right like in the last few days my hands have " healed up" the were coverered with tiny ithchy bumps and tiny red dots similoar to my penis now the itchiness is gone but by hands are dried up and pail looking  ... However now my tongue is getting these red bumps and feels on fire..... It seems this disease virus whatever it is went from my penis thorough to my hands and now on my tongue it's been 3 months since this unprotected sex but I havnt felt the same evwrsince... I'm healthy young guy I know my body and there's something wrong as much as I would like to think it's my mind playing tricks on me....... I went over my results and noticed I wasn't tested for herpes , syphalis and candida... I've been reading about stds and I'm thinking I have candida ..... What other stds could show up after a 7 week test ?????  
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To be honest it does seem as though you are stressing a little bit too much and the anxiety could be playing a role in your symptoms...

You have had accurate testing for some of the STDs as they were with in the window period... there are some that take longer then 7 weeks for conclusive results.

Below is a link with all the STD testing info.

As for the bumps on your penis, if they are continuously there then they could be warts if not then it could be other things like an irritation, ect. you should see your provider for a better analysis of these "bumps"

My suggestions is to get tested at the window period for everything needed and if neg. then move and and try to relax.

Your stress will cause a toll on you and your body. Anxiety usually brings out things you don't normally pay any attention to... also your hands have nothing to do with any std.

Let us lknow how things go..
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