Hello Medhelp Community,
Earlier today, (about 16 hrs back) I was involved in an encounter of protected vaginal sex with a csw. It lasted for about 20 minutes. At the end, when we finished the condom was not broken. I had checked and it was intact. For most of the intercourse I was at the back and she was leaning forward (d*ggie style) and there was a brief 2-3 minutes in the missionary position. I had the condom on the whole time right till the end.
Before the encounter, I had checked for obvious sores and didn't see any irritated or scabbed skin near her vagina (the light there was dim). Her skin looked intact at a glance.
I came back and immediately had a shower and washed my genital area with soap/shampoo. When I went to the bathroom in the evening the area aound the urethra and under the head was blood red. Like very red, something I've not seen before. I touched that part and there was no blood but it looked very red and stressed, as if it were a cut. Also I had a bit of pain during the day in around the penis region. Also I had masturbated once in the afternoon today.
I am really worried about my symptoms as of now. I haven't seen that sort of a sight before. For my encounter, it was deep intense sex where the genitals rubbed and I was feeling some heat down there at the time. Plus masturbated in the afternoon.
For the csw, I have visited her before and she said she gets tested. I had seen one of her negative hiv reports a few months back, like last year. I don't know her current status as of now. I take the hiv test (4th gen ELISA) about once in 6 months and my last result was negative - a week back. There was only one protected sexual exposure between the last time I had sex and the test (keeping 4 weeks in mind). It was with the same woman. I have not tested for hsv or any other STDs recently as I never developed any sores or unusual symptoms to go ahead with any medically advised tests. I will get tested now.
I totally repent my actions now and am really worried. Please help. Does this sound like initial herpes? I read a lot threads in the forum and it seems like symptoms start from about 2 days after intercourse. But I can't say. Please advice.
Thank you Medhelp Community.