Possible infection

[Frankmiller262]

Hi, I am a 54 year old male and two years ago I had an encounter with a csw. It was covered oral but at one point she inserted a finger in my rectum with probable saliva on it. I tested one month later for chlamidia and gonnerea (urine) and came back negative. Eight months later I noted some onset of symptoms burning when urinating, sore testicles and prostate pain. I was tested again (negative) and sent to urologist who diagnosed bacterial prostatitis. Ten days of doxy with improvement but not full relief but he said it eventually would go away. 6 months later I still have discomfort in the prostate area, think it is getting worse and now my partner is being told by her doctor that she has a bacterial infection but is negative for the typical stuff. Could something be missed? Is there a possible infectious issue?

[Frankmiller262]

I am a little confused, are you implying that this is an std showing up from the incident described or is there a more natural cause? I am very concerned as it would probably have severe reprocusions and I just hoped to put it behind me. Would a std related prostate infection show up on a test I have actually had 3 all urine, all negative.

[shaunw84]

Chlamidia and gonnerea tests aren't perfect.  But from what you are describing ... protected oral sex, it's unlikely you got those.  

Prostate infections are difficult to get rid off, sometimes.  

It's not surprising that if you have a persistent bacterial infection that you could pass it on.   And even if you treat, she could pass it back to you.  You both need to be on treatment.