Hi, I am a 54 year old male and two years ago I had an encounter with a csw. It was covered oral but at one point she inserted a finger in my rectum with probable saliva on it. I tested one month later for chlamidia and gonnerea (urine) and came back negative. Eight months later I noted some onset of symptoms burning when urinating, sore testicles and prostate pain. I was tested again (negative) and sent to urologist who diagnosed bacterial prostatitis. Ten days of doxy with improvement but not full relief but he said it eventually would go away. 6 months later I still have discomfort in the prostate area, think it is getting worse and now my partner is being told by her doctor that she has a bacterial infection but is negative for the typical stuff. Could something be missed? Is there a possible infectious issue?