STD's and HIV from massage parlor experience

[sanjoseca393]

Hi- I had a hot massage from a masseuse at one of the asian massage parlor. what is the risk of any STD's or HIV transmission? Do i need testing for any of the STD's. I am in a relationship. wanted to know if i am susceptible for any STD's which i may pass it on to my partner. Worried and anxious about it.

[NakedTruth]

It would depend on whether or not your boyfriend is using a condom. Your question as to how much sex does a man really need? If you have ever said "no" to his wants or needs for sex, then he will supplement it from someone else. Cold hard fact. If you started a conversation with your boyfriend and he said he wasn't in the mood to talk to you, then walked away, then YOU as a woman will no what it's like for a man to be turned down by his significant other for sex. Sex, for men, is as important as communication is for women.

[Suggestions_]

I have recently discovered that my boyfriend goes to a erotic massage parlor. I am worried that I may get an STD. I don't know how far these girls go or how far my boyfriend would let them. It is very disturbing for me, as we have had a very active sexual relationship. How much sexual attention does a man really need? Should I insist on a condom if I continue this relationship?

[auntiejessi]

Doesn't matter if she was infected, and STDs don't get passed on by chance.

Aj

[sanjoseca393]

thanks ! i got freaked out when towards the end the masseuse asked me if i wanted a blow job and a genital massage. i said no and came out. since then its been my worry what if she had been infected? or if she had passed on to me by chance.

[Vance2335]

You have nothing to worry about. If you could get an STD from a massage then no massage parlor would be open and it would be illegal.
Go and get another massage.

[sanjoseca393]

yes, just a hard massage and with lots of pressure. After reading few posts here about how Herpes could be transmitted through skin contact and HIV through cuts. i wanted to check.

[Vance2335]

From your posts the only thing you had was a massage? STD means just that sexually transmitted, you would have to have oral, vaginal or anal sex to be at risk for an STD.