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Hello,
Forgive my English as I am not a native English speaker.
I am a male and 23 days ago I visited a massage parlour in Sydney, Australia, where I got a body to body massage from a naked girl (commercial sex worker).
When lying naked on my stomach, she massaged my back, legs, butt, anus, scrotum and penis, giving me a hand job from behind. She applied water with soap (on herself and on me) to do the massage and used a sponge that was in a basket with water (most definitely used with other clients as well) to apply the water on "us".
She also rubbed her breasts and her pubic area on my back, including my butt.
When I turned around, lying on my back, she continued masturbating me and I also touched her vagina to stimulate her (without fingering). She was very wet.
I then proceeded to masturbate myself using the same hand I used to masturbate her.
She rubbed my penis on her breasts and I sucked her nipples.
Later on, while trying to position herself on top of me, her vagina touched my erect bare penis/scrotum and I asked her to move away as I did not want any genital to genital contact. The contact was very brief. She finished masturbating me until I came and we both had a shower before I left the place. She offered me to have sex with her, however I said no.
My real concerns are:
1 - Vaginal secretions from our hands on my penis when masturbating me.
2 - Sucking her nipples after she rubbed my penis on her breasts (my penis having had contact with vaginal secretions and the water used during the "massage" and then being on her breasts).
3 - The very brief genital to genital contact.
I got very anxious about this exposure. I had a full STI test at day 20th, including HIV. They all came back negative.
I also would like to say that after 3 days of this exposure, I found a lump on my left nipple, which was very sore when touching. I went to see a doctor (did not mention anything about the sexual activity) and she gave me Kefflex which I took for 5 days and the lump went away. I don't think this is related to my exposure but I just would like to let you know as well.
I really regret this episode and I would appreciate if you could assess my risks and let me know if you would recommend more tests, as I know that my tests were done too soon for some stis.
Thank you.
Forgive my English as I am not a native English speaker.
I am a male and 23 days ago I visited a massage parlour in Sydney, Australia, where I got a body to body massage from a naked girl (commercial sex worker).
When lying naked on my stomach, she massaged my back, legs, butt, anus, scrotum and penis, giving me a hand job from behind. She applied water with soap (on herself and on me) to do the massage and used a sponge that was in a basket with water (most definitely used with other clients as well) to apply the water on "us".
She also rubbed her breasts and her pubic area on my back, including my butt.
When I turned around, lying on my back, she continued masturbating me and I also touched her vagina to stimulate her (without fingering). She was very wet.
I then proceeded to masturbate myself using the same hand I used to masturbate her.
She rubbed my penis on her breasts and I sucked her nipples.
Later on, while trying to position herself on top of me, her vagina touched my erect bare penis/scrotum and I asked her to move away as I did not want any genital to genital contact. The contact was very brief. She finished masturbating me until I came and we both had a shower before I left the place. She offered me to have sex with her, however I said no.
My real concerns are:
1 - Vaginal secretions from our hands on my penis when masturbating me.
2 - Sucking her nipples after she rubbed my penis on her breasts (my penis having had contact with vaginal secretions and the water used during the "massage" and then being on her breasts).
3 - The very brief genital to genital contact.
I got very anxious about this exposure. I had a full STI test at day 20th, including HIV. They all came back negative.
I also would like to say that after 3 days of this exposure, I found a lump on my left nipple, which was very sore when touching. I went to see a doctor (did not mention anything about the sexual activity) and she gave me Kefflex which I took for 5 days and the lump went away. I don't think this is related to my exposure but I just would like to let you know as well.
I really regret this episode and I would appreciate if you could assess my risks and let me know if you would recommend more tests, as I know that my tests were done too soon for some stis.
Thank you.
Just a follow up on my tests results at 80 days for all the anxious people out there like myself.
HIV (duo), Hepatitis, Syphilis, Gono, Chlam, Herpes Serology (IgG) - all negative.
I'll try to forget about this event and all the anxiety I had for the last 3 months.
Thanks Vance and everyone who dedicate their time to help others with their problems.
HIV (duo), Hepatitis, Syphilis, Gono, Chlam, Herpes Serology (IgG) - all negative.
I'll try to forget about this event and all the anxiety I had for the last 3 months.
Thanks Vance and everyone who dedicate their time to help others with their problems.
Hi Vance, sorry for coming back to this but I have not been able to put this behind me.
I have a partner and I have not been able to have sex with her since this episode that happened on 11/November.
The masturbation was pretty rigorous and I am really concerned about the fact that vaginal fluids were transferred from our hands to my penis and also from the very brief genital contact.
Do you really believe that there is not a chance to catch something if she massaged my inner foreskin and penis head with vaginal fluids?
Also this brief contact between our genitals (no rubbing as I asked her to move away after the contact) could not put me at risk for herpes or syphilis?
It's been almost 8 weeks now and I got another prescription from my doctor for a new HIV and syphilis test at 12 weeks. He didn't really want to give me another form after I tested negative for everything at 3 weeks after exposure and for the fact that I have not developed any visible sores so far.
Within the first 2 weeks I felt some pain at a particular spot on my penis (in the inner foreskin area) but did not develop any blister or sores. The pain went away in a few days. Also I feel a slightly burning sensation when peeing sometimes. It all might be due to my anxiety and constantly checking on my penis, but this is driving me crazy.
I have a partner and I have not been able to have sex with her since this episode that happened on 11/November.
The masturbation was pretty rigorous and I am really concerned about the fact that vaginal fluids were transferred from our hands to my penis and also from the very brief genital contact.
Do you really believe that there is not a chance to catch something if she massaged my inner foreskin and penis head with vaginal fluids?
Also this brief contact between our genitals (no rubbing as I asked her to move away after the contact) could not put me at risk for herpes or syphilis?
It's been almost 8 weeks now and I got another prescription from my doctor for a new HIV and syphilis test at 12 weeks. He didn't really want to give me another form after I tested negative for everything at 3 weeks after exposure and for the fact that I have not developed any visible sores so far.
Within the first 2 weeks I felt some pain at a particular spot on my penis (in the inner foreskin area) but did not develop any blister or sores. The pain went away in a few days. Also I feel a slightly burning sensation when peeing sometimes. It all might be due to my anxiety and constantly checking on my penis, but this is driving me crazy.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
