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Stupidity, should I just move on?
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With great level of regret I made a big error and had sex with a prostitute. Now suffering from much guilt and worry I'm not sure if I need to just put it behind me and move forward or continue to worry. I can not change what I have done I need to learn from it.
The setting was an upmarket bordello, girls all tested every 3 months to be able to work.
Protected oral sex (quite vigorous I actually have a mark on my penis from her teeth that I first noticed the night of the event but I do not think this is a problem) - no failure of the condom. Then from there added lube and had vaginal sex. The vaginal sex was shorter in duration and for half was only insert to condom with little full genital skin on skin touching the other half a bit more vigorous. I explained I was worried about STD's and she assured me she had full panels for everything every 10 weeks. I think it is legal for her to work with herpes as long as she has no outbreak (but I do not know if she has herpes, it is very likely she does not but I did not ask).
No symptoms days after except some jock itch that I sometime get around my jocks and legs - but I am confusing this with maybe some outbreak.
Should I just move on if I get no symptoms? The worry is overwhealming right now.
Sam
With great level of regret I made a big error and had sex with a prostitute. Now suffering from much guilt and worry I'm not sure if I need to just put it behind me and move forward or continue to worry. I can not change what I have done I need to learn from it.
The setting was an upmarket bordello, girls all tested every 3 months to be able to work.
Protected oral sex (quite vigorous I actually have a mark on my penis from her teeth that I first noticed the night of the event but I do not think this is a problem) - no failure of the condom. Then from there added lube and had vaginal sex. The vaginal sex was shorter in duration and for half was only insert to condom with little full genital skin on skin touching the other half a bit more vigorous. I explained I was worried about STD's and she assured me she had full panels for everything every 10 weeks. I think it is legal for her to work with herpes as long as she has no outbreak (but I do not know if she has herpes, it is very likely she does not but I did not ask).
No symptoms days after except some jock itch that I sometime get around my jocks and legs - but I am confusing this with maybe some outbreak.
Should I just move on if I get no symptoms? The worry is overwhealming right now.
Sam
she also kissed my balls and the area between the balls and the anus briefly (once each only - very very short). I was a bit shocked by this as I wanted full protection.
To add I also have at the moment itchy feeling around my balls. Nothing visible it may be dry skin. I have had something like that before part of the jock itch.
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